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Coming soon!



Technology has really gone a loooong way. These days, creating your spot on the Web allows you to communicate to a bigger world. Almost every company, product, cause, personality, organization has either its own Facebook and Twitter accounts, and/or even own websites. The Internet has been one effective source of getting, and cascading information to many.

That being said, the internet has also been one effective way of evangelization. Being our mission to let more people know about Christ, Singles for Christ - Laguna is gonna get online real soon. And I'm honored to be part of it. Although I have not attended any planning or ongoing meetings, I feel so blessed and privileged to have been tapped by Sis Tets to be part of the editorial team. And I suddenly missed my college days, with how my professors blotted my papers with pencil, or worse, red pens. Hehe. :)

So, I'm excited, not only for this new service/task that I am assigned to. I have started checking some of the articles, and I myself felt blessed reading the stories that my brothers and sisters are to share, and it's just exciting that more people will be blessed by their stories, too. I'm more than ecstatic to let people experience Christ with stories of love and hope, and with that, allowing them to be blessed as well. Beyond the articles that we will share, it is sharing Christ to others through this website that I just can't wait to start with.


Tell the world that Jesus lives! 




a long trip to heaven. :)

Ever traveled alone for a couple of hours, going to a place you have no clue how far is? And you have no idea where to sleep at or who will you interact with?

Dec 2007, a dear friend, Kuya JC, invited me to come and serve at their event and be part of the Gawad Kalinga Bayanihan Challenge service team in Mulanay, Quezon. Mula-what? Sa'n 'yun? But being a GK advocate and a passionate missionary, I willingly obliged to his invitation. So he gave me instructions how to get there, and warned me, "pagdating mo ng Lucena terminal (which is a 4-hour bus ride from Alabang), mga 4 hours pa ulit." WHOA.

So I packed my things and left home at around 7am on a Friday to start my long journey. I am alone. I didn't have Ipod or mp3 player, and all I have was my Bible and my school notebook (I got an exam Monday after that weekend). I got to Lucena around lunch time where I grabbed some bite, and rode another bus that will give me another 4-hour ride to my destination.

San Pedro to Mulanay. We can almost see Marinduque island from our point.

Kuya Jett, another friend who's already at the venue, texted me the lists of barangays I would pass through so I'd know I'm almost there. So I guess he'd listed around 12 barangays. At dahil probinsyang-probinsya, very rare ang signages or barangay markers. Ayos. Puno, dagat, bundok, dagat, bundok, alikabok, puno, kalabaw. 'Yun ang signages ko.

And since I was alone, it was more like a silent retreat for me. With the beautiful view outside the window, I contemplated, "Lord, where are You taking me? What's your purpose?" So, to be able to hear the Lord, I did not talk for the entire trip (syempre, wala din naman akong kasama, except kay Papa God, of course), but for a few phrases my fingers can enumerate:
  • 1 pork chao fan (ordering my favorite meal at Chowking, Lucena Grand Terminal)
  • Mulanay po? 
  • Kuya, isa nga po (ice cream.) [the bus had a stopover at a store, at may mamang sorbetero. :p]
  • Kuya, anong lugar na po 'to? Malapit na po ba ang Mulanay? [I asked this teenager who just got off from school. Malapit na daw. whew.]

Finally, at around 3pm, I got off the bus and got a trike that will take me to the GK site. When I got off the trike, I was welcomed with people busy building homes for other people, but still managed to smile at me. Heaven!

Gawad Kalinga Mulanay Village: a haven of love and nationalism

I was welcomed by Kuya JC and Kuya Jett, my two Quezon buddies, and they introduced me to the YFCs in the locale, who have been my family for my three-day stay.

Videoke, kulitan, banda, tugtugan, production team, kwentuhan, kantahan, KAINAN, laro kasama ang mga makukulit na bata. LANGIT NA NAMAN! I was able to bond with my brothers and sisters in the community, taught the boys some music, taught the kids the GK song, and of course helped build the homes of the Mulanay folks. There was also an entertainment night where I experienced a real "diskuhan sa Nayon" and just had some real, genuine fun with them.

Partners in Nation Building

I fell in love with these kids in an instant. My favorites - Sampu (ganun sila kadaming magkakapatid) and Tyson (a very sweet little one, as opposed to his name. hihi. :p). [bottom left pic]

It's sweet how the Lord takes you to places with the initial invitation that you'll be the one to teach and share your life to other people. But the truth is, ikaw 'yung natututo. I was greatly touched with how these people shared me their lives, their smiles, their food, their love. I asked the Lord to teach me how to love, and He gave me people who loved me beyond words. 

Event's program team: SFC/YFC Mulanay. They gave me gifts for me to take home [bottom left]


Something for the boys

Now here's something naman for the brothers. Don't want to be in the Friend Zone? Here are some tips:



LIGAW KIT FOR SFC BROTHERS
Basic Checklist of Courtship for SFC Brothers

You are ready to court a sister if:
  • God is your no. 1 priority
  • You love your family dearly
  • You are emotionally healthy/ready to get hurt
  • You are financially healthy /will be able to provide
  • You are a servant
  • You are committed
  • You are willing to guard your and the sister's heart as you discern your future together in this courtship stage. 
  • You will keep this relationship pure and pleasing to God at all cost.
  • You are willing to sacrifice your own interests and comforts for the sake of another.
In discerning for a sister:
  • Be careful with your actions and words especially when you are not sure yet. Do not mislead the sister.
  • Why this person? What are your motives in pursuing her?
  • Do you know her well enough as a sister, friend, and co-worker in God's vineyard?
  • What do you like about her? Are these what God wants you to look for in a future partner?
  • Am I ready to discern this person to be my future spouse? Do I see this person as someone who can possibly be my partner in building a Christian family?

In courting a sister:
  • Discern for God's time for you to enter a relationship
  • It goes with your packaging. If she's beautiful in your eyes, be handsome in her eyes.
  • Let the sister know that you are pursuing her, how you feel and what your intentions are. No mind games.
  • Court your future wife, not just your future girlfriend.
  • Respect the privacy and purity of the sister.
  • Court in the sister's home, not in streets.
  • It is not in the amount of the gifts, it is in the presentation.
  • Be consistent in courtship, don't give false hope to the sister.
  • Reveal yourself to her, so she'll love the real you.
  • Allow the sister to entertain other brothers if she doesn't have a commitment with you yet. Be a sport.
  • Don't expect anything in return. Just be happy that she's allowing you to court her. Just love her anyway.
  • Get guidance from someone who has moral authority.
If she's a gift from God
  • She must be something special.
  • You don't have to force God, He will freely give her to you in time.
  • Pursue her. Others might get her, or she'll just slip away.

Ligaw Kit for Sisters

I got this almost exactly 2 years ago, September 4, 2010, during the SFC Regional Conference in Rizal province. This actually just came right on time when I needed it. It was when I was actually discerning for Lloyd (yeeeees nemen! :p) and this has really helped me pray for him and for my heart. Well, where did this take us now? :p 

Something really worth sharing.


LIGAW KIT FOR SISTERS

Basic Checklist during Courtship for SFC Sisters


You are ready to allow a brother to court you if:
  • God is your no. 1 priority
  • You love your family dearly
  • You are emotionally healthy/can be honest with your brother/suitor/ready to get hurt
  • You are financially healthy/good steward of resources
  • You are a servant
  • You are committed
  • You are a winner
  • You are willing to guard your and the brother's heart as you discern your future together in this courtship stage
  • You will keep this relationship pure and pleasing to God at all cost.
  • You are willing to sacrifice your own interests and comforts for the sake of another.
In discerning for a suitor:
  • If you are confused whether a brother is courting you or not, ask. Unless the brother states his intentions, do not assume. Ask what his intentions are. If he can't say, then don't entertain him as a suitor.
  • Why this person? What are my motives in considering him?
  • Do I know him well enough as a brother, friend and co-worker in God's vineyard?
  • What do I like about this person? Are these what God wants me to look for in a future partner?
  • Am I ready to discern this person to be my future spouse? Do I see this person as someone who can possibly be my partner in building a Christian family?
During courtship:
  • Discern if the brother suitor is the one prepared by God for you. Discern if he can be your future husband, not just a boyfriend. 
  • Be honest with him, tell him where he stands. Treat the brother with respect and don't ignore him. Through discernment, if he is not for you, have the courage to say no and tell him right away. Don't leave him hanging.
  • Be courted at home, not in the streets.
  • Be mindful in receiving gifts from the brother suitor. Don't give false expectations by accepting extravagant and extra special gifts.
  • Reveal yourself to him, so he'll love the real you.
  • You can still entertain other suitors if there are any as long as you've not committed to a brother suitor.
  • Get guidance from someone who has moral authority.
  • If you must turn him down, do so with respect and love for him as your brother.
If he's a gift from God:
  • He must be someone special
  • You don't have to force God, He will freely give him to you in His time.
  • Allow him to pursue you. He might be the one and might slip away.

It's been almost two years, and I'm just thankful for everything that has happened since the day this kit introduced itself to me. :p